Re: Several pages of calendar need translation

OK, This is in reply to all of you - politely - you have been
almost to a 'man'.. full of bull-***. Don, when you said that you
were in criminal justice - I spent the entire day at work really
doubting myself and trying to figure out how my common sense could be
so flawed, and that my actions really were "controlling and
abusive" and I just wasn't aware of how flagrant my actions were.

So, this evening it hit me - I entered for a search on google: "get
your facts straight before confronting a cheating spouse" to see
what I would come up with.

Here's what I found, and Don, you fraud - here is a site that is
meant exactly for you - criminal justice my ass! Where?!
http://www.domelights.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=9090
Its ANONYMOUS COPS talking about infidelity in their ranks and how to
deal with it. LINE OF ADVICE NUMBER ONE FROM THIS SITE? Glad you
asked! It boils down to "DON'T CONFRONT HER UNTIL YOU HAVE YOUR
FACTS STRAIGHT"

And, I liked this one: "THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT WE NEED TO CONTINUE TO
DO IS SUPPORT EACH OTHER AT THE MOST CRITICAL TIMES AT NEED. JUST KEEP
YOUR HEAD UP AND ALL THE ADVICE LISTED HERE IS VERY GOOD." -
Certainly not what I have been getting in this group of
"well-intentioned gentlemen".

How about this one:
http://www.sideroad.com/Marriage/dealing_with_infidelity.html
IS HE CHEATING ON YOU? "Do not confront your husband without proof of
his infidelity. To do so will be a colossal waste of time. Unless you
can prove he's been cheating, ..."

OR, this one:
http://www.faqfarm.com/Q/How_do_you_catch_a_cheating_husband
"The more you lead him to believe that you are on to him, the harder
he is going to try to cover up his tracks. Personally, i have
confronted mine and only got no where. He will only deny, and tell you
everything you want to hear..that or he will begin to get angry and may
even avoid, or walk out on the confrontation. This will push him away
making it harder to find results."

AND HERE IS A GREAT ONE TO ANSWER YOUR FLAWED ADVICE OF "INVASION OF
PRIVACY"
http://ezinearticles.com/?Cheating-Spouse:-Is-Spying-an-Invasion-of-Privacy?&id=2125
Just read the article from this expert on helping people dealing with
cheating spouses.

DAMN! And the list goes on and on and on!

Simply - "FIDELITY" IS PART OF THE MARRIAGE VOWS - 'RIGHT TO
PRIVACY' IS NOT!

Now, I need help getting my facts straight. Can I get it here or not?

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