Re: Nanitozo

On May 2, 6:02 pm, "John R. Yamamoto-Wilson"
<j...@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
I learn from people I can relax with, not from deadly serious people who
fly off the handle and start ranting in a rude and offensive manner when
they think (wrongly, as it happens) that they are being belittled.

You got to wait until I am ready, but it's basically too much to ask.
I want you to, but I can not force you because I am not special to
you, right? I don't know you. I know nothing about you. I don't
know what we have in common. Do I want to know about you? I don't
know. Are you interesting to me? What can you offer me?


I'd like to respond to you with humour, but I can't, because you have
made it clear that you don't want me to. It seems very dry and sad, but
if that's what you want, OK. You've got it.

I am not comfortable talking with you with humor either. What if you
don't understand my joke? What if I don't understand your joke? I am
scared if I didn't do it right. I am going to be embarrassed for not
understanding jokes again. I am so very scared. You never understand
this fear for not doing things right. What do you do when
miscommunication occurs? How do you tell the other without
offending? In fact, what happened in the past was they kept going
without letting the other know. Nobody told nothing, just kept it in
the middle of the air. It killed me so good. I may do humor with
you, but please don't do humor with me (until I come to like you and
feel confident enough that you are not teasing or snickering at me,
instead, having fun with me). Hey, that means I have to like you
first to have any discussion. That would be way too much to ask. I
cancel this. It's so impossible and unimportant.




.

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