Re: THE PATIENT WHO REFUSED TO DIE. 08/01/08

obviouspuzzle@xxxxxxxxx wrote:
On Aug 5, 3:47 am, "Want Cash" <moneymakingscam...@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
wrote:
obviouspuz...@xxxxxxxxx wrote:
What do you do for a job? Risk Management? I am trying to tell my
story, sorry if I am not doing it in a manner that suits you. If it
makes you feel better to believe that I am clueless and the doctors
did the right thing then go on believing that. If you are trying to
discredit me I could not care less. I have suffered so much
humiliation and dehumanization not to mention outright threats that
if
I did not have faith that the truth would come out one day I would
have cracked up years ago. Your little spewage is nothing compared
to what I have endured for over 11 years.

Right! From the tone of your post it seems that I'm also involved in
this conspiracy. Like I said earlier, you don't fool me.

I don't care to fool anybody. I am just trying to tell the truth.

Really?

What's this then: "THE PATIENT WHO REFUSED TO DIE" ???????????????

Good grief. Are you always such a drama queen or do you actually believe
that medical staff were out there trying to murder a patient (you)?

I had perfect prenatal checkups performed by a licensed midwife. I
had to have MORE testing than usual because of my age. I also had
MORE testing than usual because routine midwifery prenatal care
requires more tests than OB/GYN routine care as far as I was told. .

Extra monitoring is usually indicated when one is concerned about the
placental position. Plus, advanced maternal age predisposes one to
abnormal placental positioning. But I'm sure you know all this.

I had the ONE sonogram that is part of a NORMAL pregancy no matter if
a woman decides to have an OB or a midwife. I was not scheduled for
any more sonograms because it showed I had a healthy, active perfectly
formed son whom's placenta was attached at the TOP of my uterus. It
was perfect therefore I was told I would NOT need another one. I have
the report and the pictures.

I
had a sonogram showing my son's perfect body with the placenta
attached at the top of my uterus. My next prenatal appointment was
to
be May 28th when I was to receive a rhogam shot, (I am O negative
blood type) along with regular measurements. I was supposed to get
the shot on May 20th when I was there for my regular prenatal class
but
the midwife was running behind and suggested I come back the
following week.

How many sonograms did you have in total. Did you miss any of the
scheduled ones with the midwife?

SEE ANSWER ABOVE. I had ONE. There were no more scheduled because it
was normal. I was told my age was NO concern because my health was
better than some women in their 20's.

But being healthy doesn't mean one should be building fences and mixing
concrete on a hot sunny day, especially when 27 weeks pregnant. It is not
advisable.

The sonogram I supposedly got at Parkland shows the placenta
attached near the opening of my cervix.
This is all written in the
physician signed document report that I possess, (which just last
month I was told did not not exist.)

So what you're essentially suggesting is that your placenta was not
abnormally lying when you presented at ER, that you were not
bleeding bright red blood, that your water did not break, that an
ultrasound scheduled was cancelled by yourself, and this ghastly
physician knocked-up a bogus report out of thin air?

I had NO RELATIONSHIP WHATSOEVER with Parkland before I got to the ER
on May 25th, 1997. There was no ultrasound scheduled that I
cancelled. I did not cancel anything.

Do you have any of this in writing or is it something you picked up over the
phone when you were laughing and talking S-L-O-W-L-Y down to the privacy
officer. I think you scared the poor woman. I hope you taped the
conversation you had with her. It would be interesting to see if she did
indeed state all the things you say she did, within inverted commas

I requested my records after I was released from Parkland after being
there for 8 and a half days. I saw a sonogram report in it. I
thought it odd because I did not remember getting a sonogram so I went
to radiology to request the film.

Who told you this sonogram, which you apparently had no recollection of,
would be stored on "film"?

Did the physician tell you to go to radiology and collect it?

I was given the run-around and
finally I was told that no sonogram film exists for me.

What did the physician who did the report have to say about it? Surely he
would have had recollection of the matter if you had enquired about it 8 and
a half days after you left hospital. Of course you spoke to him???

As you say you have no recollection of a sonogram being done, do you
remember all the other tests that were done?

Was any sonogram ever done that you have recollection of at Parkland?

I was also
told that the only thing in radiology for me was a chest x-ray. I
asked to see it and I waited. I was finally handed an envelope. I
looked in it. It was empty. I told the man it was empty and he said
he did not know where it was. He suggested it was missing and
possibly a doctor had it.

Did you ask where the chest x-ray report was? Did you find out who ordered
this X ray and what for?

How on earth do you account for your symptoms, then?

Based on my own research and recall of my symptoms, I think I probably
had an abruptio or seperation of my placenta from my uterus. I also
think I was probably bleeding internally from this seperation. I
don't know this for sure because

I was not diagnosed with an abruptio
nor treated for abruptio.

If you were not diagnosed with an abruptio - nor treated for it - then it is
most likely it wasn't an abruptio!!

You wrote "The sonogram I supposedly got at Parkland shows the placenta
attached near the opening of my cervix" .

IMO, this sentence alone makes it sound very much like a placenta previa
than an abruption.

Abruption refers to placental separation from the uterine wall. Your
report clearly states placenta "attached" - so clearly no abruption. In
placenta previa the placenta is implanted low; this is abnormal - but it
still remains "attached" - causing other problems!

Forget my interpreation of one line of your sonogram report - but why didn't
you go to the hospital with a copy of the sonogram and discuss with the
physician that reported on your scan, instead of doing your "own research"
and speculating on what you think the diagnosis was. What are you afraid
of, really??????? I find it odd that you did not have any discussion with
the doctors.and had to resort to researching on your own. I have noticed
that you tend to be rather economical with the truth. Care to tell what the
physicians really told you?

IMO, any reasonable person would have in the first instance wanted to
discuss with the doctors instead of going and asking for "sonogram films"
and "x-ray films". Very odd, don't you think?

I just remember how I felt and it fits the
symptoms of abruptio. I don't think I caused the abruptio. I know
Parkland did not cause it. It just know that I had NO signs of
symptoms of pre-eclampsia at any of my check-ups. My friends and
family even commented on how I had NO swelling in my feet. One of my
friends even teased me and said, "You're such a bitch...my feet
swelled up as soon as I was pregnant and here you are 5 months
pregnant and not even showing any signs, even your feet look
skinny...you have hardly gained any weight!" I think I gained about
10 pounds. I do know that the shirt I wore to Parkland was my first
maternity shirt and it was the first time I wore it.

"Ms. Stanbery, you did not have
a sonogram at Parkland, you were scheduled for one but you
cancelled it."

LIE...SEE ABOVE

I said, "I know I did not have a sonogram...I told ya'll that 11
years ago when I saw the bogus sonogram report in my records. I
asked back then for the sonogram film and was told all I had was a
chest x- ray in radiology.

Hang on, are you saying that you cancelled a sonogram that was
indicated for you? Why would you do something like that?

SEE ABOVE. I had no relationship with Parkland WHATSOEVER before I
got there on May 25th, 1997 in premature labor. How could I have
anything scheduled before then?

Well, what date was the scan scheduled for according to them. Who was the
physician that ordered it; what were the indications for this scan? Was it
the same physician? Did you contact that physician? If not, why?


I was handed an empty film jacket and was then told
that the film was missing. I was alarmed when I saw the bogus
sonogram report because it said Barret had no kidneys and I knew he
had kidneys because they were seen on the sonogram ordered and
performed at the midwife clinic. The Parkland "privacy officer"
tried to convince me
once again, (just a month ago) that I did not have a sonogram at
Parkland therefore I have no sonogram report.
I had to laugh...she
was not laughing. I laughed as I told her that she was mixing up her
lies and getting confused. I told her S-L-O-W-L-Y so she could
understand that I have the report of the sonogram which was NOT
performed which she is now saying was never performed due to
cancellation. She once again tried to tell me that I don't have what
I do have...I don't see what I do see. She asked me to bring it to
her, in fact I could mail it to make it easy on me. I just laughed
when she told me to bring it to her or mail it....OK I will get
right
on that....AS IF.

Well, why didn't you send them a copy of the report? Perhaps it had a
reference number etc. on it that would have aided them to look into
it better and advise you?

The above conversation just happened within the last month. I am
concerned only with getting proper medical care for myself now and
don't have time for Parklands legal team and their silly ***. I
realized when she said argued with me that there is NO WAY I have a
sonogram report from the night I got to Parkland....That arguing with
her about it was like pissing in the wind. I have the bogus report
and sending it to Parkland is a waste of my time because they can't
have an explanation for it other than another LIE.

I found medical studies that show fetuses with no brain or kidneys
are considered non-viable. One wonders what is considered O.K to do
to a non-viable fetus.

I had no bad symptoms until the very day I went to Parkland. I was
helping to build a fence and it was the first real hot day of the
summer. I did not feel right. I went in the house to cool off and
have a drink of water. I tried to lay down. I went back outside to
mix concrete in the wheelbarrow...I had to stop again.

Which babybook advised you to be building a fence and mixing
concrete at the time? Perhaps if you had not been doing any of the
above you would have just been fine, don't you think?

My husband at the time was doing the heavy work. He put the sackrete
in the wheelborrow and I stood their with the water hose and put water
in the wheelbarrow. I then used a hoe to slowly mix small bits of the
dried sackrete into the water. It was not strenuous exercise. I was
not carrying the sacks or the wheelbarrow. I was helping but I was
not doing the heavy work that I normally would have done had I not
been pregnant.

You're very intent on blaming others for what happened but are not
prepared to take any share of blame. Do you honestly think you had
no role to play, at all? Perhaps this is your way of dealing with
the issue and guilt. This is perfectly understandable, however,
blaming others and trying to grab money won't get you anywhere!!
Your case has no merit, this is why no one has taken it up. Has that
ever occurred to you? I know you hate me for telling you this but
it's time you get a reality check!


That is your opinion.


I tried to eat
a bit of lunch...couldn't eat. I tried laying down again. Restless,
that is what I was. I became concerned because restless is bad in
animal behaviour which I DO know something about. I tried to relax
and do breathing exercises. By late afternoon I started to have a
twinge of cramps. I could not tell if they were stomach or uterine
related. I felt a bit ill.. it felt like menstrual cramps. I called
my midwife and told her that I had a slight spotting of brownish
colored discharge. She told me to take a warm bath and relax. She
said if the pain got worse or if I see red blood to go immediately
to the ER and don't stop to call her until I get there. The pain got
worse in spite of the bath and I begin to plan what to do.

It seems to me you actually realized the gravity of the symptoms.





I figured
out I was about 28 weeks pregnant and my baby books said that there
was a chance of survival at that age so I contemplated my options. I
live in a rural area. The closest 2 ER'S are about 25 minutes away
in two different directions.
I had recently read in the Dallas Morning News that Parkland had a
special unit called a NICU that saved babies that may have not lived
if they were not in a tertiary level 3 hospital and that preemies
were transported there from other hospitals that did not have these
special units. I remembered this pull-out special Sunday feature
because it pulled on my heart strings when I read it. The day I
read it was the first time I ever heard anything about preemies and
I was shocked to learn preemies were so prevelant. Like always, I
thought of animals, (my passion and education is about animals) and
I thought something is wrong with humans somehow because it is VERY
RARE and VERY INDICATIVE
of bad environment or injury if a farm animal has a spontaneous
early delivery of a NORMAL fetus.
I made the decision at that time to go directly to Parkland...a
40-50 minute drive on a Sunday night. I thought it would be best to
go
there and ask for help to stop the labor because according to the
newpaper article he would get top care in the NICU if he did come
early.

Quick decision you made to go to Parkland.

My bogus medical records have me bleeding bright red blood when I
got there...LIE. I was still spotting slightly.

Well, you were spotting at home, according to you. However, in the 45
minutes it took for you to get to hospital, don't you think you
would have bled some more? The fact is that you were bleeding and
had pain that was worsening. You did not have a massive bleed.
However, you were bleeding
and this would have been more apparent to the person that examined
you than to yourself.

I was on white sheets and dressed only in a gown. I was aware and I
KNOW I was not bleeding any color blood heavily.

They examined me...They
told me I was fully effaced but only 1-2 cm dilated. They said they
would try to stop the labor but they did not seem too hopeful. They
also told me that they would be forced to do an emergency c-section
if my water broke. My records state I presented with spontaneous
rupture
of membrane...LIE.
They kept telling me that Barret was not in
distress. I kept asking why I was in premature labor.

Several known causes for premature labor exist, however, of note is:
PROM , another is antenatal bleeding.

I did NOT have PROM, (premature rupture of membrane)...This I know for
sure.

I did have some spotting...rusty colored spotting.

Did you ask them why you were bleeding and what was causing the pain?

Yes...over and over and over....they said there was usually no
explanation...it just happens. "Sometimes the babies just want to
come out early." I heard that over and over. I argued with them and
told them that my son was perfect therefore he should not be coming
early unless something is wrong. I wanted to know what was wrong with
his environment that being out was a better choice than being in. I
still want to know that.

I wanted to
know what I had done wrong because I had done everything I was
supposed to do according to the midwife and all my books.

No midwife or book can guarantee anything. The good news is that you
and your son are both alive today. How about being a little grateful
for that? Most people would.

I am grateful to God that I am alive. I have no reason thus far to
believe I should be grateful to Parkland or the doctors or the student
doctors whom "cared" for me. I don't believe that I was properly
diagnosed when I got there and I don't believe that I was properly
treated for my premature labor. Period. That is my opinion. I also
understand that it is possible that my son would have come early
regardless of where I went for ER treatment. I was told by Parkland
that if I would have had him vaginally his head would be crushed and
he would have been dead. f

I had even
stopped riding my beloved Fairpuzzled because the midwife said that
horseback riding was one of the only activities she would not
approve of. I walked her in hand instead....never thinking our
relationship would change forever and we would never ride in a
parade or jump again...that I would lose my good seat, (balance)
forever.
IN MEMORY OF MY BELOVED FAIRPUZZLED. She gave me strength. A most
honest horse whom was smarter than me but decided to befriend me
anyway. She is gone but her spirit is with me.

More later, Laura Lynn Halvarson Stanbery

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You certainly are concerned with discrediting me.
I have to wonder
why you choose to do that rather than accept the truth. It is what it
is.

"Money is the only thing that will buy stem cells. Money is
the only thing that will undo the destruction done to my life and put me in
the place I would have been if I had not been victimized. Money will buy
trustworthy counseling for me and my family so that this medical
misadventure will not ruin my family for generations. I hope also that money
will buy back some of my privacy.""

I like the line about money buying privacy back...

I'd ditch that entire para off the blog if I were you. It will surely work
against you...

I want proper medical care which I believe is available somewhere
on this planet.

You're asking for exceptional treatment! God might be able to help with
that?

I believe, with proper medical care, I could be a
normal, active person and go on with my life. I also believe way to
much money and resources have been used covering up my case. I could
have used that money to get proper medical care which I think involves
stem cell therapy. Simple.

I note you're a devout Christian, so would suggest you continue praying to
God and ask for a miracle to happen?

Or are you only after $$$$ ???

Bye.


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