Re: Steph, can you talk to me?

stryped@xxxxxxxxxxx wrote:

> Why does everyone get mad? I am just seekign help for the problem I am
> haivng.

Nobody's mad, Don.
My guess is that you are practising avoidance (from unhappiness with
yourself and your life)
You've tried a number of tactics to improve yourself, but that hasn't
changed either the home scene or work scene, or your unhappiness within
yourself.
You may even be wishing that you do have cancer; either in the hope of
getting attention or leaving this world.

You've been posting these for 2 years, on various newsgroups.
As Dr. Phil, would say "How's that been working for you?" Not one bit.
All you've managed to do is get people so tired of hearing it, they no
longer want to reply.

Try something different. Use your free time wisely, leave the computer
alone and get some help for you.
Seek out either a support group or a counsellor, or a psychologist.
Be prepared to go weekly and talk things out honestly with someone that
you can relate to, with whom you can be frank about the issues that are
bothering you. It's the only way. I'm telling you from experience.
It can take a year, 2 years (even more), tries with one or the other type
of support; life's a learning process and along the way, you'll learn
about yourself and about others and I promise you will feel better at the
end of the experience.
You have to wake up reminding yourself of the positives in life; thinking
of how to make a loved ones day better (and expect the same from the
other).
At the end of the road, (if it's marital problems) and she does not
reciprocate, you may decide that you deserve better. Or you both may
decide that you married too young, or that you weren't meant to be (as a
couple).
Be good to yourself, be good to your kids, take care of you, in order to
be a good example and a good father to your children.
Face the/your issues, under expert care or with others who feel the same
way as you.
I hope next time we meet, you'll have thought about this and started the
process of getting help and on your way to a new happier life. One foot in
front of the other, is the only way to get there.

End of rant.

J
(because he's back on another newsgroup asking about Gallium scan)

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