Re: Hoof Meltdown was: Re: what the HELL is this group?

From: obo (thanatos_at_coldmail.nu)
Date: 06/10/04 

Date: Thu, 10 Jun 2004 02:14:02 GMT

On Wed, 09 Jun 2004 18:37:36 -0700, HoofPrints
<equsphotogphr@hotmail.com> wrote:

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>obo wrote:
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>> HoofPrints <equsphotogphr@hotmail.com> wrote:
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>> >I get a newsletter, I don't attend the survivor group. I attended one
>> >meeting and since most of the folks in there were surviving after the
>> >loss of a teenager, I felt out of place, mine was a spouse and one I was
>> >in divorce proceedings with when he made that decision. the newsletter
>> >did help me to recover by reading what my rights as a survivor were.
>> >I do make contributions to the group when ever I am able via monetary
>> >support to cover mailing costs etc.
>>
>> It was *his* choice.
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>> >I also receive a card on the anniversary date from other survivors. I
>> >allow this to happen even though the event was in 1988 because somehow
>> >it does them good to think they are helping another survivor.
>>
>> 1988 was a long time ago. However, ....
>
>And from your other post I gather yours was a very recent loss.
>Have you ever been confronted with being called a murderer?

I've been called many things.

>Has anyone ever tried to hurry up your grieving process?

I am not capable of grieving for a long period of time.

>Did you build a shrine?

Pseudo religious claptrap? I left the shrine building to another. He
did an OK job. Perhaps the two of you could hook up.

>Did you heart begin to heal and then did you have someone rub salt in
>the old healing wound by telling you it was your fault?

I rub my own salt. I don't play well with others unless they are very
sure of themselves. If they aren't I'll mind*** them at every
opportunity. My current wife appears to be immune. It's he reason we
are together. I still have no idea why she's interested in me. I guess
chyx really do dig jerks.

>Do you have *others* warning others that if they get involved with you
>the same will happen to them because you drove them to it? Or making
>inferences to the same?

I've had people warning others not to get involved with me for a long
time. It's good advice for the weak.

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