Re: Hoof Meltdown was: Re: what the HELL is this group?

From: HoofPrints (equsphotogphr_at_hotmail.com)
Date: 06/10/04 

Date: Wed, 09 Jun 2004 19:26:59 -0700

obo wrote:
>
> On Wed, 09 Jun 2004 18:37:36 -0700, HoofPrints
> <equsphotogphr@hotmail.com> wrote:
>
> >
> >
> >obo wrote:
> >>
> >> HoofPrints <equsphotogphr@hotmail.com> wrote:
> >>
> >> >I get a newsletter, I don't attend the survivor group. I attended one
> >> >meeting and since most of the folks in there were surviving after the
> >> >loss of a teenager, I felt out of place, mine was a spouse and one I was
> >> >in divorce proceedings with when he made that decision. the newsletter
> >> >did help me to recover by reading what my rights as a survivor were.
> >> >I do make contributions to the group when ever I am able via monetary
> >> >support to cover mailing costs etc.
> >>
> >> It was *his* choice.
> >>
> >> >I also receive a card on the anniversary date from other survivors. I
> >> >allow this to happen even though the event was in 1988 because somehow
> >> >it does them good to think they are helping another survivor.
> >>
> >> 1988 was a long time ago. However, ....
> >
> >And from your other post I gather yours was a very recent loss.
> >Have you ever been confronted with being called a murderer?
>
> I've been called many things.
>
> >Has anyone ever tried to hurry up your grieving process?
>
> I am not capable of grieving for a long period of time.
>
> >Did you build a shrine?
>
> Pseudo religious claptrap?

No. Not religious a shrine.
I left the shrine building to another. He
> did an OK job. Perhaps the two of you could hook up.

My shrine is long gone and noone in his family wanted his personal stuff
that I had saved.
The only thing they wanted was anything of value and to ask for funeral
money back.
I told them to get it from the funeral director not me, and told them
that if we had been divorced they would have footed the whole bill.

>
> >Did you heart begin to heal and then did you have someone rub salt in
> >the old healing wound by telling you it was your fault?
>
> I rub my own salt. I don't play well with others unless they are very
> sure of themselves. If they aren't I'll mind*** them at every
> opportunity. My current wife appears to be immune. It's he reason we
> are together. I still have no idea why she's interested in me. I guess
> chyx really do dig jerks.

That is cool, glad to hear it. I got involved with a friend of his co
workers, it was not a pretty picture.
>
> >Do you have *others* warning others that if they get involved with you
> >the same will happen to them because you drove them to it? Or making
> >inferences to the same?
>
> I've had people warning others not to get involved with me for a long
> time. It's good advice for the weak.

Not quite the same thing if you think about it a little longer.
hoof 

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From: Kali <Kali@nope.not>
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Subject: Re: what, no spanking? I WANT SPANKED
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:>What really makes her nipples hard.....
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:Works well yaknow, ask Kali..
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