Re: ESSENTIAL INFO ON MASTURBATION AND SEX

From: Dick Lea King (dickleaking_at_verizon.net)
Date: 02/05/05 

Date: Sat, 05 Feb 2005 03:36:14 GMT

Essential Sex Info wrote:
> Masturbation is often bad sex, and bad sex is generally not too great
> for you. It is generally over depletive, and under helpful. So, I
> would compare bad masturbation to eating a chocolate bar. There's
> nothing bad or shameful about it, and if it's all you have to eat, you
> should eat that; it's just that bad sex is not ideally the healthiest
> thing in the world -- if engaged in too often. Though sometimes it's
> healthy to eat chocolate bars.
>
> If you ARE going to masturbate, try not to make it bad sex. Instead,
> try to make it as pleasurable as possible. Ideally, you want to be
> sufficiently sexually aroused to make the sexual energy necessary for
> multiple orgasms. Guys, as well as girls must teach themselves to
> become multi-orgasmic. It is only through multiple orgasms that humans
> will be able to attain ultimate sexual pleasure and harness the sexual
> energy which can empower their lives. For guys, abstaining from too
> frequent ejaculation is essential. To learn how to have multiple
> orgasms, masturbation is at first advantageous. Women may want to use
> a dildo, and men may likewise want to use a fake *** such as the
> fleshlight, http://www.fleshlight.com. By masturbating one is
> generally more in control of the sex, and for men especially, more able
> to get close enough to orgasm that they may orgasm and yet not
> ejaculate. In any case, whether you are masturbating for pleasure or for
> practice, don't force yourself to ejaculate too quickly. Take your
> time physically. Sex is of the mind, and the more mentally aroused you
> are, the less depletive and _more_ helpful the sex may be. Since
> masturbation has a tendency to be bad sex, SEX itself is ideally
> preferable. However in the absence of sex, it is good and healthy to
> masturbate, yet one must be sure to conserve one's energy and not
> deplete oneself. This means attempting to orgasm without ejaculating,
> and replenishing oneself with fruit and vitamins if one ejaculates.
> For more information on retaining sexual energy, you may want to read
> "The Multi-Orgasmic Man." If you are able to hold off from ejaculating
> for 72 hours, you may attain maximum sperm count and experience more
> energy. However, it is probably necessary to ejaculate periodically,
> perhaps once a week or two, to stimulate your sexual health, while
> having multiple orgasms in between. Just as it is necessary to
> exercise your muscles to stay healthy, it is likewise necessary to
> exercise your penis to stay healthy. If you ejaculate all the time, or
> exercise too much, you may overwork yourself. If you never exercise or
> ejaculate, you will not be physically or sexually healthy,
> respectively. Sex is healthy however, and in the absence of sex,
> masturbation is the only available substitute. Though sex is better,
> it is actually healthy to masturbate if it is your only option. As I
> said, the better the masturbation, the healthier, and ejaculation may
> deplete you whether you masturbate or have sex. The problem with
> ejaculation may be two fold. On the one hand you are ejaculating fluid
> which contains vital nutrients from several glands, which must be
> replaced and reproduced. On the other hand, ejaculation may release
> vital sexual energy which could be channeled to other parts of the body
> and used there to make you healthier and more energized. Whilst there
> is no substitute for the real thing; in the absence of sex,
> masturbation is the only alternative. One positive thing about
> masturbation however, is that people who masturbate and who are
> comfortable with their sexuality are more likely to ultimately have
> better sex lives (I'm sure this doesn't take tons of masturbation).
>
> From age 14 on, humans are generally happier, healthier, and better off
> if they have loving sexual relationships. In Europe it is quite
> natural to have your boyfriend or girlfriend sleep over and have sex in
> the teen years. The better friends you are with a member of the
> opposite sex, the better the sex will be. Love is an aphrodisiac.
> However the only requirement for sex should be sexual attraction. Once
> this requirement of good looks and attraction is met - and this can
> occur almost immediately - WHY would you NOT have sex? Sure, a deeper
> loving relationship is probably a better experience of sex, but if your
> choice is sex with a hot babe who you barely know, or nothing, why
> would you not have sex? Marriage seems to make no difference. As far
> as the risk of unwanted children goes, money and age are more important
> than marriage. A 22 year old couple is not much more able to raise
> children than two 22 year old singles. Sure, some might say that
> marriage gives children a more solid foundation upon which to make
> their lives. And it surely does. Children are the whole purpose of
> marriage. However to those who speak out against pre-marital
> intercourse, one must point out that they seem to have no problem with
> divorce, which is the end of 50% of marriages, and leaves children in
> exactly the same place as pre-marital childbirth. Love and
> relationships are merely an even better option than plain sex.
> However, unless this alternative exists - and even if it does, sex with
> other sexually attractive people is only a question of available time -
> the question between sex with someone hot who you barely know, and no
> sex, is quite easy to answer. SEX. Thus, we find, that if both people
> are sexually attracted, then there is no reason not to have sex, assuming
> they are both healthy, use birth control, and are both good persons who
> will not have any negative effect on the other's life.
>
> Remember, don't fall into the trap of just wanting sex itself. Find
> people who you actually want.
>
> If the person you're having sex with is under 18 years old, you should
> be within 3 years of them.
> 14-17
> 15-18
> 16-19
> 17-20
>
> The beginnings of sexual activity (french kissing, etc.) often begin
> around age 11-12.
>
> 1st base: french kissing
> 2nd base: fondling breasts, vagina, & penis
>
> 14 is the age everyone should wait until to have sex.
>
> 3rd base: Oral sex: felatio & cunnlingus
> 4th base: sex, home run!
>
> Birth control is very important. The younger you are, the greater an
> imposition an unwanted baby would be, so the younger you are, the more
> important it is to use TWO FORMS of birth control. Ideally the female
> should be on the pill, and the male should use condoms. The risk of an
> unwanted baby is a risk with another person's (the babies) life, which
> is where the notion of sex being "immoral" comes from.
>
> Condoms are the only good protection against STDs. The three main
> uncurable* STD's are Herpes, Warts, & HIV, don't pass those diseases
> onto other people (that would be immoral too if you knew you had the
> disease)! Diseases such as Syphilis can cause irreparable damage if
> left untreated, so take care to get treatment at the first sign of
> symptoms! Even if you have no symptoms, Gonorrhea & Chlamydia can lead
> to Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID) in women and cause infertility,
> see
> http://www.intelihealth.com/IH/ihtIH/8799/8799/29362/197425.html?d=dmtHealthAZ
> so get tested periodically even if you have no symptoms and Gonorrhea
> & Chlamydia can be cleared up just like the flu or something. If you
> wait too long, you could end up infertile.
>
> For more info on STD's see http://www.ashastd.org/stdfaqs/index.html
>
> It is a happy fact to note however, that transmission of HIV during
> vaginal intercourse is actually rather low especially if you have
> condoms). The risk of Herpes or Warts is much higher. Inspect your
> partner's genitals before having intercourse to help protect against
> Warts & Herpes.
>
>
> *Hepatitis B may also be uncurable, which is why you should get
> vaccinated against it. Then you won't be able to contract this
> disease.
>
>
> In the event you do get pregnant, deal with it quickly and consider an
> abortion within the first three months. If you had a sperm and an egg
> sitting next to each other in a petri dish, you would normally think it
> fine to destroy them. So has anything changed the moment after the
> sperm fertilizes the egg? I don't know, but if abortion is wrong,
> consider that bringing an unwanted child into the world is not so good
> either, so try not to get pregnant.
>
> Also, when comparing heterosexuals to homosexuals, a much higher
> percentage of homosexuals have HIV, thus women who sleep with
> homosexual men are putting themselves at a greater risk of HIV, and men
> who sleep with these women are also putting themselves at a greater
> risk of HIV. So I would avoid these women and tell your chicks not to
> do gay guys. I do suppose the trade off for homos is they don't have
> to worry about pregnancy. LOL
This is total BULL***! I don't know about this wacko but at 55 orgasms
have never depleted my energy (and what "energy" is this guy talking
about anyway?)

Scientific studies have shown that males who masturbate regularly in
their early years have fewer prostate problems. This guy is nothing but
a guy who thinks gay men are getting the women he wishes he could have.

Regarding HIV there's plenty of it in the straight community and anyone
who has unprotected sex with someone they don't know inside and out is
taking a great risk.

Bull*** is never helpful and this posts from someone who's full of it.

Cheers, ***