Re: OT: AARP

Domestic help is having a cleaning lady come in once a week. It doesn't take a mansion to need help when one is old and has limitations. It has nothing to do with the size of the house and is not dictated by the neighborhood.

The house in the subdivision you showed is, in my opinion, an example of excess. There are millions of people getting by on far less without the large mortgage and interest rae that would come with it.

Nicer is in the eye of the beholder isn't it? Our house has less than 900 sq. feet plus a full basement. It sits on property that is 30 x 120. We've lived here for 23 years. Although we've spent thousands during the last few years to make repairs, there are still many to be made. I'd like to live in a bigger house that needs no repairs. I'm no different than anyone else in my "wants". But I know the difference between "wants" and "needs" and what we can afford.

It is just a matter or priorities (which for us, doesn't include a huge mortgage payment, a brand new house, a brand new car, or the toys for grownups that lots of people thing of as being necessities of life.

LizzieB. wrote:


If you would, please, define your "nicer neighborhood," because I don't have a basis for comparison.

Also, "nicer car," because I'm fully in support of a car that runs.

Domestic help? Is your "nicer car" and "nicer neighborhood" on the order of "domestic help" (that is not in the context of profitability margins)? I can totally see your point if your nicer house and car are in a neighborhood where one would expect people to have domestic help.

But we're not talking about that.

This is a house 1 block down the street from me that has been on the market for almost a year now (note the price): http://tinyurl.com/awyvl

This is my house (bought for almost exactly half the price): http://tinyurl.com/7suy5

Now, in a rare reversal of events, the first house is typical of what sells here and for what price (although I can't really say why this one hasn't) and MY house is the one that (typical for this area) should have stayed on the market for a year (but I hate the idea of being house rich and cash poor[1]).

If your definition comes close to that first house I linked, then I can really see your point (and agree), but until we define what's "nicer" to everybody, then we have no basis for debate on the specifics.



[1]When I was delivering pizza at the tender age of 20 for one of my dad's bizarre PI assignments, I saw this a lot. I'd go to the neighborhoods with the million-dollar homes (and Beemers in the drive) and they'd have no furniture, and no cash to tip me with. I thought that was just about as pathetic as any rust-ridden tin-roofed SE Kansas coal-mining shack I'd ever seen.


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