Re: Shades of gray?


"Ed Chait" <edchait4remove@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
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"Ed Chait" <edchait4remove@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
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"Su" <no.name@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
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Then they are not taking advantage of feedback that could be useful to
their growth.
Of course, if that feedback is given in a negative way, people are not
going to listen to it anyways.

And what feedback is that, Ed? Where does it come from?

You're a smart lady, you tell me.


That's an evasion to the questions.

Gave your questions some more thought, and I apologize if I misconstrued
your motives for asking them.

The feedback that I mention usually comes from a friend who in a loving
manner provides constructive criticism, which is quite a different thing
from being judgemental.

All of us make judgements all day long. We do that when we choose our
friends, or to ensure our safety, etc. It would be impossible to live
successfully without making them, but there is a very important
distinction between making judgements and being judgemental.

I know I'm being judgemental if I start thinking that I'm somehow better
than anyone else.

ed
Do you put the discussions here into that category? What I'm saying is, do
you think that anything posted here in the 2 threads was a friend in a
loving manner providing constructive criticism?

Sandi


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