Father's rights
- From: "Bam" <deercounselor@xxxxxxxxxxx>
- Date: Wed, 5 Jul 2006 21:36:39 -0400
My nephew fathered a child with a Borderline Personality female. He has
saddled himself with a nut for life. She left him, began sleeping around
immediately, etc. He has fought tooth and nail to provide stability for
their now 13 month old daughter. He's a good dad. Not a perfect dad but a
good dad. They have their first domestic relations meeting tomorrow and
this weekend the nutso mom took the child and refused to return her. Nephew
has no idea where his daughter is or with whom. When he repeatedly called
to find out, nutso called the cops and filed charges of harrassment. Today
when he saw nutso out with her latest man-friend without his child, he asked
where his child was- yelled it across the aisle in the grocery store-- and
she had him arrested for making terroristic threats. Her goal, IMO, is to
have him in jail so he cannot show up for the DR hearing tomorrow.
Thankfully, his mom and I convinced him to hire an attorney today and he did
and the attorney will show up for the hearing tomorrow in case nephew is not
yet out of jail.
He has recorded phone conversations of this woman saying she'd rather drive
her truck in a ditch killing her and the baby than see him be happy without
her (nutso not baby). She has come to his home and kicked in doors and
punched holes in walls and when he called the cops, the cops charged HIM
because he was pissed off and angry when they arrived at HIS house.
I'm SO angry tonight that I think I could honestly beat this young "ahem"
lady to a pulp and then roll over and sleep soundly. My nephew is not
keeping down food, has not slept, is crying at the drop of a hat-- all
obvious reasons and reactions to this type of stress.
I was talking to him tonight about the father in NY who got out of his van
and "allowed" the suicidal mom to drive over a cliff with the kids in the
car and how he is being charged.....
I see nothing good coming from what's going on in his life because a
borderline will haunt you until you are dead or until they are the center of
your world every minute......
And in the middle of all this is a 13 month old beautiful baby who loves her
daddy and can't see him..... this sucks.
.
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