Re: seeking information


Sandi wrote:
My mother is
heartbroken even years later, and so am I, and I don't believe there is any
excuse for what my brother did. She is his mother. End of story.


Well you answered part of my question here. Sandi I am your brother
and you have no idea the pain this decision has caused me. If your
mother is truly heartbroken, then she should seek professional help to
see what SHE can do to fix this situation. I did go into therapy with
my father at age 50 and it was the best thing that I did for my family.

Part of the reason that this continues to exist to be a problem in your
family, is because you refuse to validate the fact that your brother
was damaged. He may not be damaged in your eyes, but by your refusing
to allow him to be damaged in his eye, this will never be resolved.

With the trickle down effect of what happens to children raised in
these type of toxic homes clogging up our court system, I am surprised
that you more than most would hold these thoughts.

You may not be a family that believes in therapy, and we actually saw
the blood drain from my dad and thought we may have to call 911 when I
asked him, but it is the only way that these problems can be resolved.

Janice

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