Re: This is too stressful. Somebody find me a husband.
- From: "LizzieB." <blahblah@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
- Date: Fri, 13 Apr 2007 21:59:18 -0500
Neal wrote:
Anyhow, someone told me that the online meeting sites were dangerous
for men.
It can be dangerous for anybody. After a while online, you start to be able to figure out that you wait, watch, investigate (if you can).
Sometimes you get caught with a clunker and it ends up being a real mess in some of the most horrible ways possible.
Sometimes you find good friends you thought would be spectacular mates before you met but then in person...not so much. But you still like the friendly camaraderie.
Sometimes you find otherwise decent people you just plain wouldn't like if you'd met them in real life first and vice versa.
And sometimes you find a gem.
The point is that if you keep going and allow yourself to learn along the way, it's just like any other dating game, in real life or not. The dangers are just different.
And sometimes it's not even internet dating. I once contributed $25 the getting-out-of-a-real-mess fund of an MT in a bad situation only to find out later I didn't know the whole story (or I wouldn't have sent the money). I wouldn't have known who to ask anyway, really. The pitch was made, I sent the money, then found out the real story, and felt sick to my stomach for a while.
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